Saturday, April 12, 2008

Change of Heart...

Has this ever happened to you?
This Saturday was pretty hectic...crazy if you will!!! And it only kept getting weirder!!! My son has a spiderish-bite looking thing on his abdomen and while playing out side it began to hurt, so he comes in side and says "mommy it hurts" so I look and it had popped! So I gently applied pressure, and it began to ooze (gross I know but stick with me it gets better) according to him it was too much he couldn't bear the pain and wanted "daddy" to come and look at it...well me knowing my husband as well as I do said "you want daddy to come and look at it...he's gonna squeeze it harder!" (I know my husband, he'll be like let get this sucker over with) Well in comes daddy and he kneel down and looks at it, turns to me and says "well mommy if it's hurting him you should really just leave it alone" The look of total shock and bewilderment slowly over came my face!!! WHAT...I was thinking to my self!!! That was only one of the many eventful scenarios of the day!!! Earlier in the day, I dropped in at my house to pick up a gift bag and my husband was hosting a small gathering for a few of his guy friends in our back yard...well my little one Jayden being the outdoorsmen that he is picked up on this quick!! I t first started with, I have to go ppppeeeeeee"(so much for me running in and out) So ok lets go potty, shortly after the potty it turned into....(in three year old talk if you will) "I no wanna go to birday party, I wanna stay my daddy backyar." After A few attempts to get him back into the truck and getting the same response I finally called my husband in to see that I wasn't making this up and to see if he could possibly get this child to get in the truck!! I say to my husband he doesn't want to go to the party he wants to stay with you...Jayden also confirms this for me in his sweetest daddy I love you voice, and once again to my dismay and utter shock my husbands says with the shrug of his shoulders, "Well if he wants to stay leave him!!!"
WOW...and to think you know a guy after being married to him for 6 and a half years!!! And so I think the change of heart is not so much my hubby but maybe more so myself...to start seeing him for the good, wonderful father and husband I've always known him to be!!! I love you honey...you truly are a blessing!!!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you Jesus for the wonderful husband, that you have given my sister!! She deserves every bit of It.

Diana said...

thx sissy...I love ya!!! And just wait and see your gonna find the perfect guy you deserve too...maybe he's right in front of your face...maybe he never left?

Adriana said...

That was awesome. To think that something that simple can remind you that you are truely blessed with a wonderful husband and family.

Me said...

Diana...you and John are great together and with the boys. God has blessed both of you!

Yvette